How to Find Ghosts and How to Deal With Them

  1. Begin by looking for the parts of people that are invisible
  2. Come prepared with a microphone and a recorder, so that you can ask questions
  3. But recognize that it is usually difficult to come into contact with these hidden things
  4. Act cheerful and do a lot of listening
  5. When the ghost flashes during the conversation, don't call the person out!
  6. Hold your breath as if you were taking a picture, and continue to speak gently
  7. Allow the encounter to work itself into your memory
  8. Remember, it's often very difficult for people to deal with painful things
  9. That's why they try to make them disappear
  10. It's not very polite to try to point them out, even if you think it's in the person's best interest
  11. Recognize that this will continue indefinitely throughout your life
  12. Develop some sort of magic to alter the encounter so that it is neither frightening nor oppressing in any way
  13. Be gentle, look inwards, and decide for yourself why it's important to accept imperfection
  14. Talk about things with the people you love
  15. Don't focus on scary things
  16. Pay attention to what's living, and where there are possibilities