- Begin by looking for the parts of people that are invisible
- Come prepared with a microphone and a recorder, so that you can ask questions
- But recognize that it is usually difficult to come into contact with these hidden things
- Act cheerful and do a lot of listening
- When the ghost flashes during the conversation, don't call the person out!
- Hold your breath as if you were taking a picture, and continue to speak gently
- Allow the encounter to work itself into your memory
- Remember, it's often very difficult for people to deal with painful things
- That's why they try to make them disappear
- It's not very polite to try to point them out, even if you think it's in the person's best interest
- Recognize that this will continue indefinitely throughout your life
- Develop some sort of magic to alter the encounter so that it is neither frightening nor oppressing in any way
- Be gentle, look inwards, and decide for yourself why it's important to accept imperfection
- Talk about things with the people you love
- Don't focus on scary things
- Pay attention to what's living, and where there are possibilities